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Portia
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Hello Fellow Fumies,
At APJ we have a Saturday Question. Everyone gets to chime in with an answer, chat with other responders and it’s a fun event each week. Taking sides never means taking offence and everyone keeps it respectful and light, even though we can sometimes trawl the depths.
The idea is you’ll see it on the weekend or chime in through the week. Hopefully you will come back regularly and see if anyone has responded to your comment and you can reply to them. The aim is to generate real conversation and connection even though we are scattered around the globe.
Saturday Question: What is Your Fave Date Night Fragrance?
Date Night! Be it with your long time lover, spouse, one nighter, blind date or casual fling. Do you wear for you or them? Do you wear to feel super sexy or go under the radar in case their last partner, boss, sister, uncle or teacher wore it and they’ll be freaked? Heavy handed or ultra light? Do you have a date night signature, spend hours trying to decide or is it the last thing on your mind?
My Answer:
Jin is a funny one. He will love one of my fragrances one day and then complain that it picks his nose the next, only to do an about face a week later. It does make it tricky. I can wear Shalimar five days running (this NEVER happens BTW) and each day will get a different reaction to it.
So whatever I’m going to wear for our date night I make sure it’s at least an hour old on my body before we leave. That means Jin isn’t confronted or ambushed by the loud top notes and he can cuddle up and enjoy the calmer waters of heart and dry down.
Shalimar, Miss Dior, Mohur and Mancera The Oudh are all pretty good percentage of likes and happy compliments. Mostly though he will only make more than a passing comment if it’s annoying him. So I really wear them for myself and my own inner feeling of beauty.
My husband tolerates my perfume obsession. He rarely comments either way- but I do make sure I’m not freshly sprayed when we go out so he isn’t blasted with my scent. One he does like is SJP Covet, surprisingly! For myself, my favorite winter date perfume is Jungle l’Elephant, but I have to be quite stingy with it! Some others: Seville a l’aube, Shalimar ode Mexique, and for a humid hot evening or beach vacation, Bronze Goddess.
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Jungle Elephant is dabomb, Ms PA. It suits my chemistry perfectly, and is gorgeous on a cold Winter’s day/night to give an extra cosy hug. I get many compliments when I wear it.
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I wear something pretty but no more than a bit strange on a first date. Orange Sanguine, Vetiver Pour Elle, Ambre des Merveilles.
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Date night? What’s that? LOL! But seriously, my hubs is like Jin in that he will only comment when something is too strong or bothering his allergies. He did, however, remark on Eris Perfumes Mx not too long ago (“it smells like something from the 80s”) and will occasionally say “Go put on that 80s perfume” when he is feeling frisky 😉
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‘Feeling frisky’ That comment made me laugh. Be sure to keep that scent hidden from the ‘little marzipans’
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Ha ha! The mini Marzipans would be mortified to even imagine that their “old’ parents could be “frisky” 🙂
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Ooh, that’s a tricky question, Portia! I haven’t been on a date for a few years; not that I don’t want to, I just don’t seem to want it enough 🙂 Anyhow, I wear what I like, except, of course, for the scents that would make people choke and wish to leave (or make me leave, lol).
I was married in my twenties and I remember letting my then-husband sniff a perfume I chose to make sure he wouldn’t hate it.
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For date night, I get to wear my “bigger” perfumes because my husband doesn’t have any sensitivities, and he likes most fragrances, especially my vintages. My husband grew up with his Mother and Grandmother wearing the big fragrances from the 60s-80s, and understands my perfume obsession. I don’t have a favorite date night fragrance; today I will wear Tauer Orange Star.
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Date night, what’s that? :-). I am an old married lady with dogs, we prefer to stay home and cuddle. But if I were to go out on a date, it would be something like Amouage Fate or Dior Mitzah.
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Tara C, would they be to impress or comfort yourself?
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They make me feel pretty and elegant. 🙂
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Tara we are two old married ladies together 🙂 I too prefer to stay home and cuddle….usually in bed watching TV!
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I too am an old married lady with grandchildren. But damned if I’m staying home😃 No way José, not happening. . . Well occasionally is ok.
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Okay, I am an introverted old married lady… a night at home with the hubs and the dogs is my idea of a good time. 🙂
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Tara C
You are just like me…husband and dogs all on couch together! If I ever get taken out I wear something like Bois des Iles parfum. Posh but not screaming.
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Tough one. As all my exes complained about my perfumes, I would be a little afraid to wear anything. I guess I’d wear what I like and if the fellow complained – bye bye! Might sort the oats from the chaff.
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Hee hee…love this 🙂 I guess you could weed out the good/bad based on their reaction to your fragrance!
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I like your way of thinking, Kate! There’s a reason they’re exes.
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Date night? Mostly I wear scent to please myself, in all scenarios. Also most of my date nights are last minute, spontaneous events, ie neither of us can be bothered cooking, or cannot decide what to cook ,lol .If it is a ‘special’ preplanned event ,though, I can spend hours, even DAYS choosing my scent. My date scents are Samsara, Jungle Elephant ,Eden , Lou Lou, Grey Flannel..{if I feel like being cheeky!. .hubby is a strict, Men’s/ Women’s scents should not be crossed over type} and many times I grab a sample scent on the run.
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LOVE Grey Flannel on a woman (I wore that one when I was 18 and worked in an office in Manhattan)….
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My husband doesn’t really notice unless it’s something he doesn’t like – then he’ll comment. He likes me to just smell clean – the smell of my skin. Sigh. Kind of a let down for a fragrance lover. I just wear whatever makes me feel beautiful. Right now I’m loving Serge Lutens Un Bois Vanille – cosy for winter, a little spicy and sweet vanilla to satisfy my current love of gourmand.
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The tinterweb ate my comment🙄. I don’t have a specific date night frag as we don’t really do date nights, because any night could be date night. But I know he loves Opium and Coco.
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It’s more than 35 years since I went on a date, so I really don’t have one.
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If it’s a REALLY dressy date night, as in floor-length gown dressy, I like to wear Amouage Gold or Chanel No. 22, as they make me feel so elegant. If it’s a casual date night (like going with my DH to see Mamma Mia 2 last night — GO! it was wonderful!), I wear something lighter and usually a fragrance he has given me. He has excellent taste in fragrance and has never given me one I didn’t like, and that way I get to wear something I enjoy, which I know he will like, and I can show him how much I appreciate his gifts.
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I am jealous that you have a husband that knows what to buy for you!!! Fantastic!
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I know, I feel very lucky! He is sincerely interested when I share my thoughts on one scent or another, and he occasionally reads my blog, so he does have a pretty good notion of what I like — and he knows what he likes on me. So he’s well-equipped to go into a store, find a helpful sales associate, and tell the SA the general idea of what he’s looking for. The real miracle is that he’s willing to do all of that, lol!
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I am so impressed. Does he wear fragrance as well? do you share your fragrances? I recently introduced my hubby to St. Clair Scents First Cut and he said it reminded him of when he baled hay as a teenager. So he has been wearing that one for me….one small spray and it lasts forever on his skin…it actually smells better on him than on me….but I don’t think he would ever be as interested in fragrances as your husband is.
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Really enjoyed your review on First Cut!!!
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Thank you!
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Oops, meant to send you the link to my thoughts on Gardener’s Glove: https://scentsandsensibilities.co/2018/06/15/fragrance-friday-st-clair-scents-gardeners-glove/
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Actually, he’s only interested in them for me! His preferred scents for himself are Mennen Skin Bracer and classic Old Spice aftershave! But I’ve bought him SL’s Vitriol d’Oeillet, which he likes because it reminds him of Old Spice (both have a lot of carnation) and Penhaligon’s English Fern, which is a classic fougere. Those may be at the limit of his interest and willingness with respect to fragrance for himself. I love First Cut! And Gardener’s Glove even more. https://scentsandsensibilities.co/2018/07/13/fragrance-friday-first-cut/
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You know that is really interesting that you brought up Old Spice because a few weeks ago my husband started talking about the scents his father wore and Old Spice was one of them…along with English Leather and Canoe…he asked if these were still around….maybe there is a glimmer of hope in getting him interested in my obsession 🙂
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The original Old Spice is truly a classic. So many of us take one sniff and smell Dad!
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It’s absolutely amazing that your husband knows your perfume preferences so well that he never fails to get you a truly great present. I can’t even be envious of that!
I loved your reviews on St. Claire’s scents, Gardener’s Glove sounds like something I might like.
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Thanks! I love Gardener’s Glove. Working now on my third review of St. Clair Scents: “Frost.” Glad you liked the others!
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Your writing is very moving. I enjoyed reading the piece about your childhood souvenirs.
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Date Night what’s that……same here
When I go out I usually wear a Guerlain. Mitsouko, Shalimar, Shalimar souffle. Le Heure Bleau
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Beautiful choices, date night or not.
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My husband’s one and only perfume love is Carnal Flower, so when we go out I wear that. He never notices any other perfume, and can always appreciate CF, so I wear it for him. I wear my others for normal days.
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